Hi mum i have just put a photograph of my fathers grandfather and grandmothers graves in Joplin Missouri....i arranged with the cemetry manager for flowers to be laid on the graves for Memorial Day and i think they look nice....i hope someday to be able to visit the cemetry and lay a wreath from me and you and then i think i can maybe get some peace into my heart what do you think mum....im off now for my dinner i will come back soon byeeeeeeee